Reflecting on a family vacation with toddlers - two weeks in the heartland

by Joe Doyle on October 14, 2008

If you ever hear of a friend traveling with a toddler, have compassion. Toddlers are assertive. Always on the go, they hate the word “no”. They can’t talk, but they want to. They are frustrated. The like to explore. They test your boundaries on purpose, just to get a laugh.

It’s a tough gig for one, double crazy for two. Luckily for us our friends and family – everyone rolled out the welcome mat and took control to make sure we had all the necessities and more (thank you thank you thank you).

Still, it was maniacal at times. Katie was sick from motion in the van and on the plane. PJ didn’t want to sleep in his tent. We went from care-taking 25% of the waking day, to 100%. Man was it cruel.

If I’m sounding like we had zero fun, I apologize. Nothing is farther from the truth. We saw old friends and our family got to meet the rest of our families. There was a spa day for Stacey, I was pulled around Palos by Paolo (thanks again for the bike!), Rachel and Ken. We even had 16 people for dinner in Greek Town on the last night.

The trip north reminded us of how much we love tall trees and fertile soil, and miss our friends and family. We’ll do it again soon – maybe when the kids are five or so.

Pictures from the trip are found here.
Here are some highlights:

Sun rise over the pond in Galena, IL.

Sun rise over the pond in Galena, IL.

Aunt Betty plays with the kids.

Aunt Betty plays with the kids.

Katie chasing Aunt Kelly's cats.

Katie chasing Aunt Kelly's cats.

PJ and Grandma Jean learnin'.

PJ and Grandma Jean learnin'.

Katie on the slide at Little John Lake.

Katie on the slide at Little John Lake.

PJ and Grandpa Joe at Cloud Gate (The Bean).

PJ and Grandpa Joe at Cloud Gate (The Bean).

Doyle cousins computing.

Doyle cousins computing.

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1 Paolo 10.14.08 at 10:19 am

It was great seeing you again and even moreso on what was a perfect day for riding perfect trails!

I’m glad I only have one little girl to deal with on my flight this weekend - oh joy!!

May you and your family be well!!!

2 Joe Doyle 10.14.08 at 10:42 am

Thanks, Paolo. Have a great time in Guatemala. Enjoy the bounty of the land!

3 Kelly 10.14.08 at 8:57 pm

Hey-my pics are on Flickr.net too so if anyone wants to connect to them, I think they can through yours. I miss you all already–it was a great vacation to spend with you all! lys-kd

4 Joe Doyle 10.14.08 at 11:36 pm

Here’s the link to Kelly’s images:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/22842959@N06/

Thanks, Sis. We miss you, too.

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