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Day in the life.

Reflecting on a family vacation with toddlers - two weeks in the heartland

by Joe Doyle on October 14, 2008

If you ever hear of a friend traveling with a toddler, have compassion. Toddlers are assertive. Always on the go, they hate the word “no”. They can’t talk, but they want to. They are frustrated. The like to explore. They test your boundaries on purpose, just to get a laugh.

It’s a tough gig for one, double crazy for two. Luckily for us our friends and family – everyone rolled out the welcome mat and took control to make sure we had all the necessities and more (thank you thank you thank you).

Still, it was maniacal at times. Katie was sick from motion in the van and on the plane. PJ didn’t want to sleep in his tent. We went from care-taking 25% of the waking day, to 100%. Man was it cruel.

If I’m sounding like we had zero fun, I apologize. Nothing is farther from the truth. We saw old friends and our family got to meet the rest of our families. There was a spa day for Stacey, I was pulled around Palos by Paolo (thanks again for the bike!), Rachel and Ken. We even had 16 people for dinner in Greek Town on the last night.

The trip north reminded us of how much we love tall trees and fertile soil, and miss our friends and family. We’ll do it again soon – maybe when the kids are five or so.

Pictures from the trip are found here.
Here are some highlights:

Sun rise over the pond in Galena, IL.

Sun rise over the pond in Galena, IL.

Aunt Betty plays with the kids.

Aunt Betty plays with the kids.

Katie chasing Aunt Kelly's cats.

Katie chasing Aunt Kelly's cats.

PJ and Grandma Jean learnin'.

PJ and Grandma Jean learnin'.

Katie on the slide at Little John Lake.

Katie on the slide at Little John Lake.

PJ and Grandpa Joe at Cloud Gate (The Bean).

PJ and Grandpa Joe at Cloud Gate (The Bean).

Doyle cousins computing.

Doyle cousins computing.

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The DOYLES are headin’ north

by Joe Doyle on September 21, 2008

Hey friends and family – we’re coming your way!

Many of you know about our planned vacation, but for those who are just finding out I apologize on the timing. We’ve been very busy and trying to schedule everything has been kind of nightmarish. Nothing more stressful than a vacation, right?

Here’s our plans, we hope to see as many of you as possible. Please know that you’re all invited to join us at any location at any time and we encourage it! It’s going to be hard for us to travel to everyone’s home with the toddlers, we hope you understand.

09.23 Tues - leave Austin, land at O’Hare, meet Grandma jean and Grandpa Bob to get their vehicle. They’re so nice and kind to travel six hours round trip to lend us transportation. [Thanks again.] After a quick lunch with them we’re headed to Galena, IL for the Goeres family reunion.

09.24 Weds - 09.26 Fri - Hanging out in the land of Ulysses S. Grant. Lots of family fun - games, shenanigans, possibly a mountain bike morning through The Prairie Peddler. Maybe an Alpine Slide for the kids.

09.26 Fri - Drive to South Bend, IN (Granger, really) to see our good friends, the Bells. Our kids will have much fun together, and Kelly has already offered up more than we’ll need. So nice.

09.27 Sat - Drive a little farther north to St Joseph, MI to see our good friends, the Finnigans. Even more kids craziness and reacquainting with old friends. Likely a good chimenea burn that night.

09.28 Sun - A few more miles up the beautiful west Michigan coast to Allegan, MI to see Grandma Jean, Grandpa Bob, Aunt Kelly and a lot of Ashley relatives. Mom’s hosting an open house to display the toddlers Doyle, just today I realized i get to see some family I haven’t seen for years. Very exciting.

09.29 Mon - After a visit to Aunt Kelly’s work, we’ll pop over to her new house in Kalamazoo. We’re looking forward to seeing the place and her friends!

09.30 Tues - 10.01 Weds - Back in Allegan, maybe a quick mountain bike ride for the kid at Yankee Springs or Fort Custer (where Stacey and I got engaged). Looking for a bike shop that has some demos, so we’ll see.

10.01 Weds - Drive to Chicago to see Grandpa Joe and Grandma Karen. We’re staying in a great condo just two blocks from Comiskey. GO SOX!

10.02 - Thurs - Stacey’s going to take some time and have a spa day at The Silken Tent, owned by our good friend Tiffany Cannon. Then it’s Doyle Day at the condo - all the cousins are coming by, you can, too. Any of these days feel free to visit.

10.03 - Fri - More Doyles in the morning, then a mountain bike ride at Palos with Paolo, Mike and Rachel. Night-time is wide open and dedicated to seeing friends. We’ll likely start out at Dugan’s in Greek Town. If you’d like to pop by the condo before to see the kids, please feel free.

10.04 - Sat - We leave at noon, but there’s always breakfast.

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Dark Star Orchestra show review - 09.20.08 at Stubb’s.

by Joe Doyle on September 21, 2008

DSO made their way to the ATX last night and the wait was well worth it. They haven’t played Austin for 2.5 years.

I think my friend Willy said it best, “just close your eyes and you’re there”.

It’s true. Rob Eaton sounds and looks like Bob Weir – he even has that weird Bobby stare when he sings. John Kadlecik plays guitar like Jerry Garcia and his voice is sweet like Cap’n Trips. The drummers and piano were amazing - these people are very talented musicians. I even enjoyed Lisa Mackey’s renditions of Donna Jean Godchaux – partially because she didn’t take it over the top like DJ usually did.

The set was Disco Dead-ish, with Touch of Grey and some more funky licks. Highlights for me were Fenario, St Stephen (coming out of Space) and Sugar Magnolia. We danced and sang and every once in awhile we’d look around in amazement – everyone at Stubbs was shaking their money maker, singing loud and having fun. A truly kind night.

I miss the Grateful Dead, but I’m glad their spirit lives on in DSO and others who pay proper tribute to one of the most influential music acts of all time.

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